This is a superb piece in the WSJ by Kate Hymowitz. Among her excellent points:
“Higher-income, college-educated couples are far more likely to get married and stay married than their less-educated and lower-income peers.” The typical divorce is not of mid-life couples who are bored, 20% of marriages break up within 5 years. She provides excellent statistics and a good grasp of the “marital satisfaction decreases with children” paradox.
My favorite line: (re happily married empty nesters) “Perhaps it’s the joint pride of a difficult task completed”.
And the title question’s answer is….NO